In the last few days especially I've noticed that I lack grace for myself. I allow in myself (even though it happens anyways because against my desires I am still a flawed human being) no room for failure, I find I despise the learning curve, and in some instances it keeps me from exploring, creating and trying new things for fear of any of the aforementioned "failure."
First of all failure is relative and that lifestyle is a wretched way to live, and if you're anything like me you will revel in the truth that is really is grace enough for all of us.
So allow yourself some room to breathe. Some room to fail. Room to learn and grow and change and... laugh. Life is better when we're swimming in a sea of grace.